Eh, its really just "whatever" at this point. I tried, really tried, to include her in the lives of her grandkids. She CBA to put down the bad habits. Been nearly 10 years now, so the emotional ties are gone.
Was awkward at my grandma's funeral in January being a pall bearer. My grandma was a fucking saint though, I'd carry her through Hellfire and Brimstone if I had to