He admits to Hot Tub Parties. He admits to being a swinger (which I am going to need a shit barrel of brain bleach for). He denies the allegations. And... I think that's the reason why I believe him. He admits to so much crazy shit he has done (up to and including threatening to kill people), that why would he lie on this?
He also said he has talked to the guy the messages were actually sent to and he had no problem with any of it. That would be a pretty easy thing to call bullshit on if it’s actual bullshit.