we can't control the actions of others but we can focus on the things that define ourselves. im blessed to have the opportunity to have a better life, im grateful for the amazing people in my life, im fortunate to be able to pursue my dreams and do the work that i want to do and not the work i have to do, i pray to God that im never blind enough to take these things for granted......thats how i stay calm. #onelife ...and it's to short to be miserable. peace